At the Kennedy Center’s gala in honor of the 50^th anniversary of John F. Kennedy’s presidency, Denyce Graves sang a powerful tribute to Grace Bumbry and the White House concert in 1962, in which Bumbry was introduced to America. Bumbry, a 2009 Kennedy Center Honoree, pushed past racial, social and artistic boundaries through her voice.

The event is part of the Rubenstein Program, and is supported by David and Alice Rubenstein, Connie Milstein and others.

This is a picture from the New York-Presbyterian Hospital’s Black-Tie Gala in 2008. Philanthropist Connie Milstein and Abby Elbaum smile for the camera at this fundraising event for emergency medicine departments

Connie Milstein

The Collegiate Seminar Program is an exclusive program established by NYU graduate Connie Milstein in 2007. This special program, unique to NYU’s College of Arts and Science, provides seminars for freshmen students and creates a mentoring relationship with the faculty of the Seminar program with each student; a relationship that continues throughout the student’s undergraduate careers.

Connie Milstein has been the force behind other innovative programming at the University, including the establishment of a branch of NYU in Washington, D.C., the Constance Milstein and Family Academic Center. With a branch in the nation’s capital, students of politics have a ‘home away from home’ in which to observe the workings of government up close.

The Humpty Dumpty Institute, with co-founder Connie Milstein, is an organization with many programs. One of them is The Global Creative Forum, who recently brought representatives from three U.N. projects to Hollywood, California with hopes of exposing famous film and television writers and producers to the problems and efforts of the U.N. Writers from famous shows such as Law and Order, Burn Notice and Private Practice were present at the event.

The event began with an introduction by Bill Rouhana, chairman of HDI and GCF, who was followed by U.N. Assistant Secretary General Robert Orr and Juan Carlos Brandt of the U.N. Department for Public Information. The first speaker was Elizabeth Jennings, who works for the World Food Program in Haiti. She described the flexibility of the Haitians when they are faced with the disasters of earthquakes, hunger and cholera. Jennings was followed by Olivier Mukarji from the United Nations Department of Peace Keeping in Darfur, Sudan. He explained how the U.N. works to save refugees from Darfur as well as to negotiate an end to the conflict between the political parties in Sudan. Gary Lewis of the U.N. Office on Drugs and Crime in Thailand spoke of the efforts being put into stopping the human and drug trafficking in the region.

In February, the US Department of Agriculture provided the Humpty Dumpty Institute (HDI) with $4.1 million by giving them the Dole-McGovern Food for Education Grant. The Dole-McGovern program supports education, child development and food security in low-income countries. It provides financial and technical assistance, as well as agricultural products in order to aid child nutrition.

HDI is an organization which works to find solutions to humanitarian problems around the world. Its current goals are to eliminate mines and other UXOs (unexploded ordinances) around the world, as well as to ease domestic and international hunger issues. Connie Milstein is a co-founder of HDI.

The grant provided $3.2 million in cash, as well as $900,000 which covered the transportation cost of 910 tons of beans, canned salmon, corn-soy blend, milled rice and vegetable oil with hopes to feed approximately 19,000 children daily.

Many organizations, such as CURE (Citizens United for Research in Epilepsy), with board member Connie Milstein, are working fervently to find ways to improve the condition and livelihood of people afflicted with epilepsy. One example of a creative approach is the use of seizure-assist dogs.

Dogs are used to assist humans in many different ways. Some are used just as companions, while others are used as guides, guards, shepherds and mush dogs. Lately, scientists have been studying an unusual ability that has become apparent in many dogs- the ability to detect an epileptic seizure before it happens.

This talent is a relatively new discovery, and the results of the studies are not yet consistent. Many dogs are being trained to be seizure-assist/ response dogs, as opposed to seizure-alert. This means that the dog is taught to either stick by their master for the duration of the seizure, or to quickly fetch medications, a telephone or a designated caretaker.

Some dogs are capable of detecting an oncoming seizure. However, it is difficult for dog owners to recognize the dog’s attempts to alert them of an approaching seizure. The dog’s normal behavior will change, although these changes may be very subtle. In order for this method to be helpful, the owner must have a very strong relationship with the dog, and be aware of even the smallest changes in its demeanor.

For the second year in a row, the NCCU Veterans Law Program will be sending two teams to take part in the Veterans Law Appellate Advocacy Competition sponsored by the United States Court of Appeals for Veterans Claims and the Court’s Bar Association. At last year’s inaugural competition, NCCU defeated Boston University School of Law, Georgetown University School of Law, and the American University School of Law.   The competition will take place mid-October in Washington, D.C.  Connie Milstein has a degree from the North Carolina Central University Law School (as well as NYU).

Connie Milstein, owner of Connie’s Bakery and General Store, selects six non-profit organizations each year to be Charitable Patners.  All profits from the bakery are distributed among these six charities.  In addition, Connie’s Bakery and General Store promotes their partners on their website to draw attention to the great work they are accomplishing.

One of these partners, the Veteran’s Hospital of Castle Point, provides health care for America’s Veterans.  The hospital, located along the Hudson River in Dutchess County, New York, provides a large array of services to veterans who have given their time to their country.  In addition to the health care, research and education offerings from the hospital, they are a back up for national emergencies and an active community partner.

CURE – the organization that works hard to find a cure for epilepsy sufferers while supporting their plight – has helped many individuals with this disease. It is not just those afflicted with the disease who are suffering though and CURE strives to help the family and friends who need just as much support.  One individual speaks about her personal story and how CURE has helped her:

“My introduction to epilepsy didn’t come from a fall on the bathroom floor, or an inability to move or speak. It began with one terrifying phone call. I was thirteen years old, spending the summer with my dad when my aunt called. My mother, Wanda, had suffered a seizure and was in Intensive Care. Scared to death, all I wanted was to return home to be by my mom’s side. However, my father did not think it was important enough to cut short my visit with him. It was the first of many times that someone would underestimate the seriousness of my mother’s struggles. At the time of my mother’s epilepsy diagnosis, she had already been struggling with other health problems. At the age of thirty, soon after my birth, my mother had a stroke. Left permanently disabled, this was the beginning of a life-long battle including many trips to emergency rooms and much unpredictability in our lives. I never knew when I would have to call an ambulance, help my mom get to the hospital, and try to stay calm in the process.

To make matters worse, we dealt with the constant stress of our dire financial situation, in part due to the staggering cost of treating my mother’s medical problems. I silently prayed for a “normal” childhood—one with a healthy parent who didn’t require me to be a mini-adult. After learning of that first seizure and then her diagnosis of epilepsy, I had no idea what to expect. I didn’t know how my life might change. I was inundated with brochures and leaflets at the hospital describing how to cope with epilepsy. She was advised to attend a series of support group meetings at which she was repeatedly told how she could “live” with epilepsy. And my mother did live—for the next eleven years—with infrequent seizures and a daily “cocktail” of high-powered medications. However, just weeks after her fifty-third birthday, my mother suffered two major seizures. Her body never recovered, and she passed away six weeks later.

After her death, I could never quite escape the thought that maybe something could have been done to extend her life if only there had been a focus on curing her illness rather than simply relying on pills to control it. Maybe, if we hadn’t been so accepting of the diagnosis and focusing on how to “live” with it, we would not have been so tolerant of the occasional seizures and the debilitating side effects. I believe children with family members who have epilepsy are often forgotten victims of this devastating disease. There were no support groups for me—nobody to answer all the questions or address all the fears that raced through my mind. As my mother’s only child and often the person present when she was most in need, I never felt completely comfortable disclosing my fears and concerns about her illness. I also struggled with speaking to family about the cause of my mother’s death.

Though a shock to us all, her departure was in some ways considered an inevitable ending to a long battle with illness. I wrestled with the notion that my mother had been silently suffering for years—that her epilepsy caused her more grief than any of us knew. This was confirmed when I found a journal she had kept in the final year of her life. It was clear that she meekly, yet stubbornly, suffered from silent warning signs—loss of consciousness, memory loss—but worked diligently to hide them from me and from others. It broke my heart to feel that while I was away at college, embarking on my journey into adulthood, my mom was struggling all alone. When I found CURE, it released so many thoughts I had held inside for years. Why did we simply accept the status quo? Why were we OK believing that the best we could do was to live with the diagnosis of epilepsy, which included breakthrough seizures and medication side effects? Why had I never heard anyone speak about a cure, or even a “race for a cure”? Why did we settle for simply pouring medication after medication into my mother in a vain attempt to control her seizures? In my heart, I knew I had found an organization that was on the right track. We can and must work together to find a cure. My mother’s seizures should not have been treated as inevitable, just as her death should not have been viewed as inevitable. In CURE, I have found hope for all patients and family members who suffer from epilepsy. CURE is the powerful force needed to make this dream of a cure a reality.”

Connie Milstein is a supporter of the important work of this organization, today serving on its board of directors.

Kathy Roth-Douquet is chairman of the Board of Blue Star Families as well as being its founder and President.  She is an advocate for military families as well as a noted author, having enjoyed much success with her book AWOL, The Unexcused Absence of America’s Upper Classes from Military Service and How It Hurts the Country (with Frank Schaeffer, HarperCollins) which Sen. John McCain said was “a great service” to America.  In Leatherneck magazine, she was termed a “spokesperson for military families.”  On the board with Roth-Douquet as Director of Washington DC BSF, is Connie Milstein.